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| ★To avoid failure! Grave closing and pre-death reservations |
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| In Japan, the closure of graves is progressing nationwide. In some cases, graves located far away are left unattended and are not properly maintained, and in other cases, graves are closed due to the lack of a successor. In other cases, the financial burden on the surviving family is also a burden. In some cases, the existence of the existing graves is a source of distress for the surviving family. |
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| 【How much does a funeral cost in total?】 |
| Funeral costs can be broken down into three categories: the cost of the funeral itself, food and drink entertainment, and fees paid as a token of appreciation to religious figures. Of course, this does not include the cost of setting up a cemetery or erecting a gravestone. According to the "Fourth Nationwide Funeral Survey" Kamakura Shinsho (March 2020), the average cost of a funeral is 1,191,900 yen・・・ |
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| 【Beware of funeral homes that ask for additional fees】 |
| Funeral-related companies tend to charge detailed fees. Most companies are not transparent. They claim to be transparent, but they often charge additional fees. They often claim to be "cheap," but the low price is only a base fee and then they charge detailed additional fees later. The reason they are not transparent is because they don't know the number of mourners. However, ・・・ |
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| 【The reason behind the increase in grave closures】 |
| "Grave closure" refers to the removal of the headstone, the clearing of the grave site, and the return of the right to use it. Methods include moving the grave to another location or scattering the ashes, eliminating the cemetery that should be maintained in the first place. Grave closures have been increasing in recent years, often due to various social reasons. Reasons for considering grave closure・・・ |
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| 【How much does it cost to close a grave in total?】 |
The average cost of closing a grave is generally estimated to be between 200,000 and 3,000,000 yen. The cost of closing a grave can be broadly divided into two components: the cost of removing the existing grave and the cost of purchasing a new grave. First, the cost of removing the existing grave will likely total between 100,000 and 300,000 yen. First, you'll need to obtain a "reburial permit" ・・・ |
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| 【I don't want a funeral for myself!】 |
Recently, the number of people who think, "I don't need a funeral!" seems to be increasing. Funerals usually cost at least 1 to 2 million yen. The cost of a complete funeral includes the coffin, funeral supplies, altar, hearse/bed car, venue, service fees, and flowers. Food and beverage entertainment costs include the wake, food and beverages for the end of abstinence, funeral return gifts, and condolence ・・・ |
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| 【Is a pseudonym necessary?】 |
In Buddhism, a "kaimyo" (posthumous Buddhist name) is a name given to a deceased person after death. The name written on most memorial tablets is a kaimyo. In some cases, a person's secular name is written on the memorial tablet. It seems that giving a kaimyo to the deceased was originally intended to ensure that they would be able to reach the Pure Land without getting lost. ・・・ |
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| 【Do I need an ihai?】 |
"Do I need to make an ihai?"... To get straight to the point, an ihai is not absolutely necessary. However, if you plan to pray at home and pray over the ihai, it may be a good idea to have one. Even if you choose a permanent memorial service for your grave, whether or not to have one is a separate issue. In fact, it seems that many people who choose permanent memorial service do not make ・・・ |
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| 【Do I need a Buddhist altar at home?】 |
Many people seem to be struggling with household issues where their Buddhist altar no longer fits their needs due to changing lifestyles. While the Buddhist altar is a uniquely Japanese culture, it serves as a smaller version of a temple's main hall. It originally spread to ordinary households during the Edo period, when the Danka system was implemented in response to the ban on Christianity. ・・・ |
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| 【Ashes can be mailed.】 |
If it is difficult to transport the remains yourself, you can send them by mail. It is not illegal to send ashes within Japan. Sending ashes by mail is called "sōbō." The handling of ashes is clearly stated in the "Law Concerning Cemeteries, Burials, etc." The only illegal acts are sending ashes overseas and disposing of uncrushed ashes on private property. The post office will handle ashes via "Yu-Pack." ・・・ |
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| 【How to dispose of remains】 |
Abandoning remains without permission is a violation of the law and is punishable by law. Article 4 of the Cemetery and Burial Act stipulates that burials and cremated remains must not be carried out in areas other than cemeteries. Therefore, remains must be interred in a permitted location. Private individuals are not permitted by law to create cemeteries in their own yards or other areas. ・・・ |
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| 【Regarding handling of memorial photographs】 |
Of course, memorial photographs didn't exist in times before photography. Memorial photographs only appeared after the war. It's a custom that became widespread after World War II. Therefore, there are no provisions in Buddhist teachings regarding the handling of memorial photographs. Even if you ask a temple priest, you'll only be given their own personal opinion, which does not necessarily ・・・ |
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| 【Before it ends up in the garbage!】 |
Currently, municipal offices and other local governments do not offer free collection of cremated remains. However, disposing of them with regular garbage or leaving them in a public place is considered a crime of "abandoning remains." Some local governments allow crematoriums to refuse collection of remains before they are cremated. While the general rule is that the family should collect ・・・ |
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| 【Being reborn doesn't necessarily mean you're human】 |
Recent DNA research has revealed that dogs may be the animal with the longest history of human interaction. Dog domestication dates back 11,000 years, toward the end of the Ice Age. Many animals, including cats, are thought to have been domesticated around 6,000 years ago, when humans began settling down for farming. Furthermore, it has become clear that there is virtually・・・ |
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| 【Adoption and care of your beloved pet】 |
Many people worry, "What will happen to my pets when I die?" Japan is an aging society, but pet lifespans have also increased significantly due to improved diets, widespread vaccinations, and advances in veterinary care. It's entirely possible that one of your pets may even outlive you. What happens to your pet after you die? Under Japanese law, pets are not considered "people" ・・・ |
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| 【Pre-death reservations are easy even for single people】 |
Today, the number of elderly people living alone is on the rise, leading to an increase in the number of people closing their family graves across Japan. Some people may feel emotionally reluctant to close a family grave that has been passed down through generations. For those who are left alone after their family members have passed away, they may be troubled by the question of when・・・ |
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| 【Advance reservations for couples who have pledged their love】 |
Pre-ordering scattering of ashes is recommended for couples who want to be together forever, both in this life and the next. By pledging pure love and never separating, scattering ashes allows you to rest forever in the same forest. For couples who don't have a grave and no heirs, forest scattering may be the perfect plan to ensure they'll never be separated. These days, ・・・ |
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| 【Group pre-death reservations to sleep together】 |
It might be a good idea to make a pact with like-minded friends to rest together. Pre-booking a forest scattering service as a group provides peace of mind. This service is designed for singles with no other relatives to make a mutual arrangement to mourn with like-minded friends. Because it's a mutual aid relationship, if one person dies first, the other group members will oversee ・・・ |
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| 【A farewell ceremony to mourn the deceased who have returned to nature】 |
If the ashes are scattered in nature, holding a farewell gathering in nature is the most meaningful way to be close to the deceased. However, it can feel a little strange if the bereaved family scatters the ashes on-site and you gather elsewhere. The proper way to gather at a purification ceremony is to display a photo of the deceased, making it seem as if the deceased is present, but it can feel ・・・ |
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| 【YOKOHAMA FOREST】 |
| The scattering spot in the Totsuka area of Yokohama is easily accessible from Tokyo, allowing you to visit the grave at any time. Yokohama is characterized by scattered hills scattered amongst its sprawling residential areas, and this scattering spot offers the feeling of overlooking the surrounding residential areas from a small hill. The site is reached by train and bus, but climbing the stairs from the residential area leads to a completely different world. This spot is set in untouched natural forest, creating ・・・ |
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| 【YOKOSUKA FOREST】 |
| The scattering site in the Taura area of Yokosuka City is conveniently located by train. It's only a few minutes from the station to the site, so we recommend the "attended scattering plan," which allows for a visit afterward. You may be surprised to find a quiet forest so close to the station. The site is located on a small hill, so you'll need to climb well-maintained stairs to access it. Streetlights are also available, making it possible to visit at dusk or at night. While there are several residential ・・・ |
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| 【MIURA HILL】 |
| The Miura scattering spot is located on a hill overlooking Kaneda Fishing Port on the Miura Peninsula, offering a magnificent view of Tokyo Bay. The Miura Peninsula boasts relatively cool summers and mild winters. Its temperate oceanic climate makes it a frost-free region, even in winter. Compared to Tokyo, the area is 1°C cooler in summer and nearly 2°C warmer in winter. Even when it snows in Tokyo, it often doesn't snow in Miura. This makes it an ideal location for grave visits year-round. The Miura・・・ |
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| 【KAMAKURA MOUNTAIN】 |
| The scattering spot in Kamakura City is located in the Kamakurayama area, a renowned celebrity destination. On the way there, you can enjoy spectacular views of Sagami Bay and Enoshima. Kamakurayama is home to many famous people, including politicians, businessmen, and entertainers, with their mansions. Famous residents include Yoshimoto Kogyo Holdings Chairman Hiroshi Osaki, Mino Monta, and the couple Ryudo Uzaki and Yoko Aki. The Kamakurayama residential area was developed ・・・ |
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| 【ZUSHI FOREST】 |
| This scattering spot offers a scenic view of Enoshima and Mount Fuji. Reaching the site feels like a light hike. After passing through a residential area, it takes about 30 minutes to reach the site via a mountain path. While recommended for hiking enthusiasts, it's not recommended for those unfamiliar with mountain hiking. This scenic spot is well-ventilated, with sunlight filtering through the trees. It's a dry, healthy area, with no creepy or damp feeling whatsoever. While there are hiking trails nearby, the area・・・ |
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【HAYAMA VALLEY】 |
| The scattering site in Hayama is accessible by car from residential areas. The fan-shaped plateau sandwiched between mountains is called a "yato," and it is located at the very edge of the residential area. Further inland, a virgin forest spreads. The surrounding mountains block the wind, preventing strong winds and maintaining a calm atmosphere. The scattering site, surrounded by untouched natural forest, is within walking distance of Morito Beach, but its remote location means it's rarely visited. ・・・ |
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| 【OISO MOUNTAIN】 |
| Oiso is located in the south-central part of Kanagawa Prefecture, bordered by Sagami Bay to the south and hills including Mount Koma and Mount Takatori to the north. The area's temperate climate, influenced by warm coastal currents, makes it a comfortable summer and winter resort year-round. From the mid-Meiji period to the early Showa period, Oiso was home to many mansions and villas, including those of prominent figures in the political and business world, including Hirobumi Ito, Shigeru Yoshida, ・・・ |
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| 【ODAWARA FOREST】 |
| The scattering spot in Odawara City is located in the Iryuda area. Iryuda is a station on the Hakone Tozan Railway, but it's easily accessible from the city center by transferring on the JR Shonan-Shinjuku Line from Odawara or the Odakyu Romancecar from Shu-Odawara. The journey from Shinjuku Station takes two to two and a half hours, making it a short trip, but it's also a great place to visit graves on a day trip. Nearby are research and exhibition facilities such as the Kanagawa Prefectural Museum of ・・・ |
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| 【HAKONE MOUNTAIN】 |
| The area around Tonomine, where the ashes scattering site is located, is a 566m-high mountain on the border between Odawara City and Hakone Town in Kanagawa Prefecture. It is one of the ancient outer rims of Mount Hakone. It is close to Tonosawa Station on the Hakone Tozan Railway, and a hiking trail leads to the summit via Amidaji Temple. This historic mountain was once the site of a secondary castle for the Odawara Hojo clan. The Tonomine Castle ruins, a medieval mountain castle straddling Hakone ・・・ |
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| 【SAGAMIHARA MOUINTAIN】 |
| Sagamihara is a designated city in northern Kanagawa Prefecture. Sagamihara's scattering site is located in the Midori Ward area of Sagamihara City. The Midori Ward area of Sagamihara City is home to five artificial lakes: Lake Sagami, Lake Tsukui, Lake Okusagami, Lake Shiroyama, and Lake Miyagase. These lakes support the lives of the prefecture's residents as important water sources. The clean water and crisp, clean air make this a treasure trove of nature. The scattering site is located in the ・・・ |
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| 【YAMAKITA MOUNTAIN】 |
| The mountains of Yamakita offer a panoramic view of the Odawara cityscape and Sagami Bay in the distance. Surrounded by nature, the Tomei Expressway runs below, allowing visitors to objectively observe human activities. It's a truly fitting scattering spot for the deceased's final resting place. The gentle southeast-facing slope allows for a gentle breeze, excellent sunlight, and no dampness. The natural surroundings make you want to relax and even camp. Because it's a largely unpopulated area,・・・ |
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| 【MINAMI-IZU FOREST】 |
| Minami Izu's scattering site is located in the southernmost area of the Izu Peninsula. Minami Izu is characterized by its stunning scenery and history. Blessed with a warm climate, this area still retains untouched natural beauty. There are many scenic spots, including Hirizo Beach, with its crystal-clear waters, beautiful ocean, and Cape Irozaki, offering sweeping views of the horizon. Minami Izu's greatest appeal, a well-established tourist destination, is its close proximity to beautiful nature and wildlife. ・・・ |
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| 【SAGAMI BAY】 |
| Ocean scattering involves scattering ashes in the Shonan Sea, known as Japan's most famous tourist destination. Many famous people have had their ashes scattered in Sagami Bay, near Shonan. These include Yujiro Ishihara, Shintaro Ishihara, Sadako Sawamura, Izumi Masatoshi, and Kanako Fukaura. Many of these scatterings are at the request of the deceased, and it is expected to become increasingly popular in the future. Ocean scattering is often used to mourn those who loved the sea, especially ・・・ |
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| 【TOKYO BAY】 |
| Tokyo Bay has a long history as a popular scattering spot. It's also where the spirits of war heroes from the Pacific War, such as Hideki Tojo, rest. This plan involves scattering ashes off the coast of the Miura Peninsula, known for its warm climate. Among celebrities, entertainment reporter Masaru Nashimoto famously had his ashes scattered in Tokyo Bay in 2010. He was said to have loved the sea and even owned a cruiser. Ocean scattering is often used to honor those who particularly loved the ocean. ・・・ |
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