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★How to do your own DIY funeral
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| It is not always necessary to pay a lot of money to a funeral home. Because we care about our family, we want to hold our funeral in our own style as much as possible. A heartfelt funeral that you can do yourself will bring you peace of mind and peace of mind. |
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| 【Mourn the deceased yourself without relying on a funeral home】 |
This article explains how to transport a family member's body to the crematorium yourself, without using a funeral home. There's no need to pay expensive funeral homes. It's all do-it-yourself. The deceased would never want their family to be forced into unnecessary expenses. You can transport the body from the hospital yourself. You can then transport the body to the crematorium yourself. ・・・ |
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| 【Notifying family and friends of the death】 |
First, contact those who had connections with the deceased. It's best to contact relatives and friends by phone. Because of the risk of complaints that you didn't contact them immediately, phone calls are more effective than emails, as they allow for timely communication. Even if you're contacting multiple relatives, it's best to contact everyone directly whenever possible. Someone might be so ・・・ |
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| 【Withdraw cash from a bank account】 |
When a bank learns of a deceased person's death, the bank automatically freezes the account. Relatives and heirs are not notified in advance. Any remaining savings in the account will be passed on to the heirs as inheritance property, but to avoid any problems, the bank will temporarily freeze the account. Once frozen, no money can be deposited or withdrawn. Withdrawals for funeral expenses, ・・・ |
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| 【Order dry ice】 |
In Japan, cremation is legally prohibited until 24 hours have passed since death, so be sure to order dry ice to slow the decay of the body. Dry ice can be easily found by searching online. Orders from Amazon or Rakuten will arrive the next day, but since it's essential for immediate use, order as soon as possible. To maintain the body's condition, it's recommended to begin cooling・・・ |
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| 【Transporting the body in a private vehicle】 |
When a person dies in a hospital or facility, the body must be removed within a few hours to a maximum of one day. Generally, a funeral home or transport company must be immediately arranged to transport the body to the home or mortuary. Transporting a body does not require a dedicated trolley or hearse; there is no problem with transporting it in a private vehicle. Of course, ・・・ |
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| 【Keep the body at home】 |
At home, lay the body on a futon. In the summer, keeping the room cool is crucial. Having ice packs or dry ice can help slow decomposition. In the winter, it's important to keep the heating as low as possible to prevent the body from getting too warm. Even in winter, having ice packs or dry ice can help slow decomposition. A plastic sheet may be placed between the futon and the alcove. ・・・ |
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| 【Be aware of changes in the corpse】 |
After death, a body undergoes significant changes over time. It's important to have a basic understanding of how a body changes. Leaving the body in its current state often results in fluid leakage and soiling. This requires extra work, so try to slow the process by using air conditioning, dry ice, or other methods to keep the body as cool as possible. 1. Limb Limbs
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| 【Book a crematorium】 |
Reservations are required at crematoriums. Generally, you should make a reservation with the local government where you are registered as a resident. By law, cremation cannot take place within 24 hours of death. This is thought to be to prevent evidence from being destroyed in cases of murder. Call the crematorium to confirm the following: 1. What day and time should I arrive? ・・・ |
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| 【Order a coffin】 |
Coffins can be purchased online. Prices vary widely, so feel free to choose one you like. Please note that these are large items and may incur additional shipping charges. One-touch assembly models are also available, which may be more convenient. Coffin sizes are generally measured in shaku (approximately 30 cm). A good rule of thumb is that a 6-shaku coffin is sufficient for ・・・ |
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| 【What to do when placing someone at home】 |
Even while the body is lying in state at home, there is a chance that someone may unexpectedly visit. They may rush over, wanting to see the deceased one last time. It is also necessary to tidy up the entrance and the rest of the house a little. A mess so cluttered that there is no room to step leaves a good impression. Even while the body is being laid to rest, it is customary ・・・ |
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| 【Place the body in a coffin】 |
Coffining refers to the process of placing the body in a coffin. In Buddhist ceremonies, this is performed before the wake, but in many cases the body is transported home and immediately placed in the coffin. While professional undertakers and funeral homes are increasingly being hired to perform this task these days, it was originally something that relatives and others did themselves. This is ・・・ |
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| 【Preparing the urn】 |
Urns can also be purchased online. There are many different types available, so choose one that suits your needs. While there are many different sizes, urns range from 2 sun (approximately 6.5 cm in diameter x 7.5 cm in height) to shaku sun (approximately 31.5 cm in diameter x 34.0 cm in height). Smaller urns are often used for pets or as permanent memorials. If you're storing ・・・ |
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| 【Obtain a cremation permit from the city hall】 |
The "Death Certificate" you receive from the hospital is the "Death Notification" to be submitted to the local government office. You may need it for future procedures, so it's convenient to make several copies. After filling out the necessary information on the "Death Notification," submit it to the local government office. You will also need a seal, so don't forget to bring it with you. ・・・ |
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| 【Transport to the crematorium】 |
To transport the coffin to the crematorium, first arrange for a rental car. Coffins are approximately 180 cm in size, so they cannot be transported in a regular car. A fully flatbed wagon-type vehicle is required. A light truck or cargo vehicle with a loading bed is also acceptable. Depending on the rental company, check to see if there is any clause in the contract prohibiting the transportation of bodies.・・・ |
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| 【Obtain a burial permit at the crematorium】 |
Guided by crematorium staff, you will say your final goodbyes to the deceased in front of the crematorium furnace before the coffin is carried out. Photography is generally prohibited at crematoriums. One reason is to protect the privacy of other family members, and the other is out of consideration for the crematorium staff. Cremation takes about 1-2 hours, so during that time you will ・・・ |
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| 【Bringing remains home from the crematorium】 |
Once the remains have been prepared at the crematorium, you're free to do whatever you want with them. You can take them home and keep them there until you're satisfied, or you can scatter them instead. The timing of burial varies. Some people bury the ashes on the same day as the cremation, while others choose to keep them at home for a while. If there is already a grave, the ashes ・・・ |
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| 【Required official procedures】 |
1. Obtaining a Death Certificate or Autopsy Report
If the death occurred in a hospital, the doctor in charge will issue a Death Certificate. If the death occurred outside a hospital, such as at home, the police station will issue a Post-mortem Report. These documents are a third-party verification of the death, ・・・ |
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| 【Easy-to-forget procedures】 |
In addition to clearing away the trash left behind by the deceased, you will also need to organize the things the deceased used and proceed with the necessary procedures. As mentioned above, social insurance and national pension benefits are important, but other important matters include canceling credit cards, canceling mobile phone contracts, changing the billing address for utilities ・・・ |
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| 【Organizing belongings】 |
You should also sort through the deceased's treasured belongings. While there are no specific rules, this is often done around the 49th day after death. You may need to vacate a rental property or sell real estate at this time, so there's a lot to do. While there are many estate sorting services available, we recommend sorting through your belongings yourself. By reminiscing about ・・・ |
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| 【Set up a memorial account on social media】 |
By converting social media accounts like Facebook and Instagram into memorial accounts, connections can share and use them as a place to remember the deceased. While new posts will no longer be possible, previously posted photos and text will remain. Since you won't be able to log in at all after that, there's no need to worry about your account being hijacked. In this case, you'll need・・・ |
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| 【Thinking about pulverization and scattering of ashes】 |
When scattering the ashes of a deceased person, the most important consideration is undoubtedly the "pulverization" process. Many people are reluctant to crush the remains, which still have some structure, into small pieces. Therefore, you can entrust just the "pulverization" process to a professional. You can easily find bone-pulverization services on shopping sites like Amazon and Rakuten. ・・・ |
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| 【Tips for pulverizing bones yourself】 |
No qualifications, permits, or licenses are required for bone pulverization. Pulverizing the bones yourself is a form of mourning. In any case, the remains must be pulverized into small pieces. Leaving the remains in their original form violates the Cemetery and Burial Law. They must be crushed into small pieces before scattering. Many bone crushing and scattering companies recommend・・・ |
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| 【It's best to scatter the ashes yourself】 |
Scattering the ashes yourself allows you to offer a heartfelt condolence for the deceased. It also eliminates the need for a funeral. Even if you go to the trouble of finding a costly funeral, most attendees are there out of courtesy. Unless the bereaved family is nearby, they're usually talking about something else. They might even joke around and laugh. Is it really necessary to go to ・・・ |
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| 【Tips for scattering ashes at sea】 |
No qualifications are required for scattering ashes. Scattering ashes is not illegal, so it can generally be done anywhere. If the remains are crushed into small pieces, they are no longer considered ashes under the law and are therefore not subject to the Cemetery and Burial Act. However, scattering ashes is prohibited near beaches, fishing grounds, and aquaculture farms. It is also ・・・ |
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| 【Tips for scattering ashes in the mountains】 |
It is illegal to bury remains in the ground while retaining their shape, but even if the bones are not crushed into small pieces, burying them in the ground is also illegal. Legally, scattering ashes refers to scattering ashes above ground. Covering them with soil after scattering them is also illegal, as this would be the same as burying them underground. Therefore, it's best to cover ・・・ |
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| 【Scattering ashes in the garden of one's home】 |
If it's your own land, you don't need to get permission from anyone. It's not illegal to scatter ashes on your property. If you own a detached house with a garden, you may scatter ashes there. There are a few things to keep in mind when scattering ashes, so please be sure to follow these precautions. Burial of ashes is regulated by the "Cemetery, Burial, etc. Act." It clearly states that ・・・ |
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| 【Scattering ashes on the beach】 |
If you scatter the ashes yourself on the shore, there's no cost involved. Sandy or rocky areas are fine. Just avoid swimming beaches, fishing grounds, and fish farms. Ocean scattering requires chartering a boat through a scattering service and heading out to sea, which can be costly. However, if you do both the pulverization and scattering yourself, these costs are completely ・・・ |
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| 【Scattering ashes on the embankment】 |
The term "levee" can refer to both "tide embankments" and "breakwaters." A "tide embankment" is a levee located on land that prevents the intrusion of storm surges, high waves, and tsunamis, while a "breakwater" is located in the ocean and prevents waves from the open ocean (wind waves and tsunamis) from causing waves inside a harbor. Many "levees" are national property, managed ・・・ |
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| 【Scattering ashes from a rowboat】 |
Another option is to go a little further offshore in a rowboat and scatter the ashes. If you bring a kayak or small recreational boat and head out to sea, you can scatter the ashes in complete privacy. Boats come in a variety of sizes and shapes. Some are inflatable, meaning they can be inflated with air each time. Boats without engines do not require a boating license, so anyone can ・・・ |
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| 【Purchase a mountain and scatter the ashes】 |
Scattering ashes on a mountain requires permission from the owner, but if you purchase the land yourself, you don't need anyone else's permission. Recently, more and more people are purchasing mountains. Around 2023, many people looking to acquire private campgrounds flocked to purchase mountains. Even so, mountains can be acquired inexpensively. It's legal to scatter ashes on a mountain・・・ |
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| 【Scattering ashes in rice fields or farmland】 |
It is clearly illegal to scatter ashes in someone else's fields without permission. As farmers, those who own fields likely understand that scattering ashes in fields is prohibited. While scattering ashes in fields is apparently common in rural Thailand, scattering human bones is prohibited in Japan. However, scattering cow, pig, and chicken bones in fields is not a problem. Animal bones ・・・ |
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| 【Get a private scattering area for your family】 |
You can also acquire a family grave space for scattering ashes. If you plan to scatter ashes yourself in the future, acquiring a space specifically for scattering ashes may be a good idea. You can visit the space whenever you like, and it can be used just like an existing family grave. This is also good news for those who currently do not have a grave or are worried about the high cost of purchasing one. ・・・ |
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| 【YOKOHAMA FOREST】 |
| The scattering spot in the Totsuka area of Yokohama is easily accessible from Tokyo, allowing you to visit the grave at any time. Yokohama is characterized by scattered hills scattered amongst its sprawling residential areas, and this scattering spot offers the feeling of overlooking the surrounding residential areas from a small hill. The site is reached by train and bus, but climbing the stairs from the residential area leads to a completely different world. This spot is set in untouched natural forest, creating ・・・ |
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| 【YOKOSUKA FOREST】 |
| The scattering site in the Taura area of Yokosuka City is conveniently located by train. It's only a few minutes from the station to the site, so we recommend the "attended scattering plan," which allows for a visit afterward. You may be surprised to find a quiet forest so close to the station. The site is located on a small hill, so you'll need to climb well-maintained stairs to access it. Streetlights are also available, making it possible to visit at dusk or at night. While there are several residential ・・・ |
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| 【MIURA HILL】 |
| The Miura scattering spot is located on a hill overlooking Kaneda Fishing Port on the Miura Peninsula, offering a magnificent view of Tokyo Bay. The Miura Peninsula boasts relatively cool summers and mild winters. Its temperate oceanic climate makes it a frost-free region, even in winter. Compared to Tokyo, the area is 1°C cooler in summer and nearly 2°C warmer in winter. Even when it snows in Tokyo, it often doesn't snow in Miura. This makes it an ideal location for grave visits year-round. The Miura・・・ |
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| 【KAMAKURA MOUNTAIN】 |
| The scattering spot in Kamakura City is located in the Kamakurayama area, a renowned celebrity destination. On the way there, you can enjoy spectacular views of Sagami Bay and Enoshima. Kamakurayama is home to many famous people, including politicians, businessmen, and entertainers, with their mansions. Famous residents include Yoshimoto Kogyo Holdings Chairman Hiroshi Osaki, Mino Monta, and the couple Ryudo Uzaki and Yoko Aki. The Kamakurayama residential area was developed ・・・ |
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| 【ZUSHI FOREST】 |
| This scattering spot offers a scenic view of Enoshima and Mount Fuji. Reaching the site feels like a light hike. After passing through a residential area, it takes about 30 minutes to reach the site via a mountain path. While recommended for hiking enthusiasts, it's not recommended for those unfamiliar with mountain hiking. This scenic spot is well-ventilated, with sunlight filtering through the trees. It's a dry, healthy area, with no creepy or damp feeling whatsoever. While there are hiking trails nearby, the area・・・ |
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【HAYAMA VALLEY】 |
| The scattering site in Hayama is accessible by car from residential areas. The fan-shaped plateau sandwiched between mountains is called a "yato," and it is located at the very edge of the residential area. Further inland, a virgin forest spreads. The surrounding mountains block the wind, preventing strong winds and maintaining a calm atmosphere. The scattering site, surrounded by untouched natural forest, is within walking distance of Morito Beach, but its remote location means it's rarely visited. ・・・ |
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| 【OISO MOUNTAIN】 |
| Oiso is located in the south-central part of Kanagawa Prefecture, bordered by Sagami Bay to the south and hills including Mount Koma and Mount Takatori to the north. The area's temperate climate, influenced by warm coastal currents, makes it a comfortable summer and winter resort year-round. From the mid-Meiji period to the early Showa period, Oiso was home to many mansions and villas, including those of prominent figures in the political and business world, including Hirobumi Ito, Shigeru Yoshida, ・・・ |
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| 【ODAWARA FOREST】 |
| The scattering spot in Odawara City is located in the Iryuda area. Iryuda is a station on the Hakone Tozan Railway, but it's easily accessible from the city center by transferring on the JR Shonan-Shinjuku Line from Odawara or the Odakyu Romancecar from Shu-Odawara. The journey from Shinjuku Station takes two to two and a half hours, making it a short trip, but it's also a great place to visit graves on a day trip. Nearby are research and exhibition facilities such as the Kanagawa Prefectural Museum of ・・・ |
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| 【HAKONE MOUNTAIN】 |
| The area around Tonomine, where the ashes scattering site is located, is a 566m-high mountain on the border between Odawara City and Hakone Town in Kanagawa Prefecture. It is one of the ancient outer rims of Mount Hakone. It is close to Tonosawa Station on the Hakone Tozan Railway, and a hiking trail leads to the summit via Amidaji Temple. This historic mountain was once the site of a secondary castle for the Odawara Hojo clan. The Tonomine Castle ruins, a medieval mountain castle straddling Hakone ・・・ |
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| 【SAGAMIHARA MOUINTAIN】 |
| Sagamihara is a designated city in northern Kanagawa Prefecture. Sagamihara's scattering site is located in the Midori Ward area of Sagamihara City. The Midori Ward area of Sagamihara City is home to five artificial lakes: Lake Sagami, Lake Tsukui, Lake Okusagami, Lake Shiroyama, and Lake Miyagase. These lakes support the lives of the prefecture's residents as important water sources. The clean water and crisp, clean air make this a treasure trove of nature. The scattering site is located in the ・・・ |
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| 【YAMAKITA MOUNTAIN】 |
| The mountains of Yamakita offer a panoramic view of the Odawara cityscape and Sagami Bay in the distance. Surrounded by nature, the Tomei Expressway runs below, allowing visitors to objectively observe human activities. It's a truly fitting scattering spot for the deceased's final resting place. The gentle southeast-facing slope allows for a gentle breeze, excellent sunlight, and no dampness. The natural surroundings make you want to relax and even camp. Because it's a largely unpopulated area,・・・ |
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| 【MINAMI-IZU FOREST】 |
| Minami Izu's scattering site is located in the southernmost area of the Izu Peninsula. Minami Izu is characterized by its stunning scenery and history. Blessed with a warm climate, this area still retains untouched natural beauty. There are many scenic spots, including Hirizo Beach, with its crystal-clear waters, beautiful ocean, and Cape Irozaki, offering sweeping views of the horizon. Minami Izu's greatest appeal, a well-established tourist destination, is its close proximity to beautiful nature and wildlife. ・・・ |
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| 【SAGAMI BAY】 |
| Ocean scattering involves scattering ashes in the Shonan Sea, known as Japan's most famous tourist destination. Many famous people have had their ashes scattered in Sagami Bay, near Shonan. These include Yujiro Ishihara, Shintaro Ishihara, Sadako Sawamura, Izumi Masatoshi, and Kanako Fukaura. Many of these scatterings are at the request of the deceased, and it is expected to become increasingly popular in the future. Ocean scattering is often used to mourn those who loved the sea, especially ・・・ |
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| 【TOKYO BAY】 |
| Tokyo Bay has a long history as a popular scattering spot. It's also where the spirits of war heroes from the Pacific War, such as Hideki Tojo, rest. This plan involves scattering ashes off the coast of the Miura Peninsula, known for its warm climate. Among celebrities, entertainment reporter Masaru Nashimoto famously had his ashes scattered in Tokyo Bay in 2010. He was said to have loved the sea and even owned a cruiser. Ocean scattering is often used to honor those who particularly loved the ocean. ・・・ |
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